She Comes First, by Ian Kerner, is a witty, well-researched and revealing guide to bringing a woman to orgasm every time through cunnilingus. Oral sex has long been regarded as foreplay, a mere prelude to intercourse; now, Ian Kerner ushers in a new sexual era where it can be the focus of sexual “coreplay”. She Comes First is divided into bite-sized sections covering the philosophy and the techniques behind successful cunnilingus. It also includes step-by-step instructions and detailed anatomical information, essential to both beginners and experienced lovers (did you know that the clitoris has 8000 nerve endings, twice as many as the penis?).
“It’s time to close the sex gap and create a level playing field in the exchange of pleasure, and cunnilingus is far more than just a means for achieving this noble end; it’s the cornerstone of a new sexual paradigm, one that exuberantly extols a shared experience of pleasure, intimacy, respect and contentment. It’s also one of the greatest gifts of love a man can bestow upon a woman.” Ian Kerner
Ian Kerner has a doctorate in Clinical Sexology from the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists. In the United States, he is known as the evangelist of the female orgasm.
“Before you give up on oral sex… if you yourself don’t know what the options are… get yourself a copy of Ian Kerner’s manifesto She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman and make sure your boyfriend reads it too… It is a veritable paean to the art of good oral sex, packed with instructive sentences… I cannot recommend it highly enough.”
Suzi Godson, ‘The Times’
“Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”
“She Comes First should be required reading for all men who are dating and all women who are wondering why they’re not satisfied. A practical, friendly, well-written guide for men who want to give better orgasms and the women who will be lining up to love them”
Cindy Chupack, writer/executive producer of Sex and the City
“If your man understands what’s under the hood of a car better than the hood of a clitoris, this will enlighten him.”
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“Some women feel uncomfortable about oral sex. Others are Ian Kerner fans.”